Sex toys for couples can be used in many ways and for many reasons but our main focus here is to use couples sex toys to enhance and explore sexual boundaries. At SexLoveCoffee, we believe that the exploration of those sexual boundaries should be a lifelong journey. This journey begins alone as you fantasize about what turns you on and explore your own body. In time, if your lucky enough, you find a partner to join in your, and their, sexual exploration and that's when the fun really begins. Below is a list of sex toys and fantasy ideas to inspire your next push into the unknown.
Remember too that whether you're new to sex toys and introducing your first vibrator or experienced and role-playing as a masked dominatrix, couples-play with toys involves clear communication and allowing even a semi-scripted experience to be spontaneous, natural, and pleasurable for everyone. Having said that, couples that play together., stay together. So, plug-in, charge-up, and let's all get a little kinky.
Sex Toys for Couples
#1 Guaranteed Orgasms for her with Hitachi Magic Wand Rechargeable
Use this thunderous wand vibrator as a ‘finishing' tool to make sure she always orgasms or take it to the next level and combine with a bit of bondage play to ‘force' multiple orgasms (if she is willing of course).
The Hitachi Magic Wand is legendary for a very good reason: It consistently makes women orgasm. Although this shouldn't be the only goal of couples play, it is a big part of why we all like to get naked and sweaty in the sheets. The rechargeable version (cordless) is a bit more expensive than the original corded version but it's worth losing the cord and these wands are built to last so we consider it a solid investment. We've owned a corded Hitachi for over 10 years and it's still buzzing away but we got tired of dealing with the cord itself so bought the rechargeable last year and its produced many happy moments.
See our Full Review of Hitachi Magic Wand Rechargeable Here. See Pricing and availability at these trusted stores: Lovehoney, Vibrators.com, Liberator.
Note: Be aware that the Hitachi Magic Wand has had issues with fake wands being sold under their name on Amazon and other unauthorized stores. Make sure you get a real Magic Wand by purchasing through a reputable store.
#2 Add Girth with Rocco Breeder by Perfect Fit
Give her the extra-thick cock shes been craving (or you've been craving to give her) with an open-ended cock sleeve. Slide on together or role play by giving her ‘permission' to be with this girthy gentleman for the night.
The Rocco Breeder by Perfect Fit is the best open-ended cock sleeve that I've reviewed to-date. It fits snuggly around your cock and is soft and flexible so that it can easily accommodate very different sized penises. A secondary hole for your balls holds the toy in place and provides a nice tug on the balls as an added bonus. Although you may look intimidatingly thick when worn, the material is soft enough to challenge her without discomfort. The Rocco Breeder has both an exterior ribbing/contour for her pleasure and interior nubbed texture for him. The penis head remains exposed for full sensation while the sleeve moves slightly during intercourse to provide stimulation for him. This is a fun way of giving her a different experience and still let him feel the wonders of skin to skin contact. Check out our full Rocco Breeder review here.
#3 Fully Endulge those Size Fantasies with Barney by Blissful Creations
Take fantasy huge cock role play to the next level with a custom-sized ultra-realistic cock sheath by Blissful Creations.
We recently had the pleasure of trying 3 different cock sheaths by Blissful Creations. These ultra-realistic cock sheaths are true works of art, bringing realism to any role play scenario involving a new cock in the room. Our favorite was one of the smaller offerings, The Barney, but that's only because of her size preferences. These cock sheaths look and feel amazing but they start big and get huge so make sure to pick one that she will ultimately enjoy.
These sheaths have no ball strap and are instead held on by a naturally occurring suction when worn. Adding to the realism is the fact that these cock sheaths have custom-sized interiors so they fit perfectly around you (never too short or too long). Our full review of Barney will be coming soon but here is our review of the larger Mailman which is similar in all ways but exterior size.
#4 Multiple ‘Touchless' Clitoral Orgasms with the Womanizer Pro40
Give her a real opportunity for multiple clitoral orgasms before, during, or after intercourse. Although the clitoris is bombarded with fast-moving powerful airwaves, it is not being physically touched which allows many women to create a cycle of orgasms without getting the over stimulation of a classic vibrator.
Mimi and I have reviewed a lot of airpulse stimulators. Most searches will come up with two main brands; Womanizer and Satisfyer. I honestly have nothing bad to say about either. For couples play I think it is best to pick an air-pulse toy better suited for combining simultaneous air-pulse stimulation with penetration from a partner such as the Womanizer Pro40. We also had a fun time with the Satisfyer for Couples although I'm not sure if it is still being sold and its one of those toys that some people loved and others hated. Check out our reviews on the Womanizer Pro40 and other clitoral stimulators below:
- Womanizer Pro40
- Satisfyer Pro 4 Couples
- Satisfyer Penguin Pro vs. Haute Couture
- Satisfyer Pro 3 Vibration
#5 Couples Anal Play with Peridise by Aneros
Everybody has a bum so why not explore anal pleasure together. Bond as a couple by experiencing similar penetrative stimulation hands-free while doing whatever else turns you on.
The Peredise by Aneros is really two toys in one. These two unassuming anal toys are a fun and relaxing way to get started with anal play. I've heard too many stories about couples trying to navigate some back door play and jumping far too quickly to uncomfortable and often unsuccessful anal sex. With Peredise, both members of a couple can explore anal stimulation together and the small size makes it extremely unlikely to experience any discomfort. Whether your style is playful or sensual, both members of a couple can experience the excitement of insertion and the feeling of penetration. Then, just let the Peredise do its job. No need to touch or push after insertion as the shape of the toy will provide its own subtle stimulating movement as your anus contracts naturally during sex and ultimately during orgasm.
#6 Go Hands-Free with Liberator BonBon
Let him watch you ride another ‘man' or take you both at once with the Liberator BonBon and her favorite dildo.
Sex toy mounts like the Liberator BonBon are a great way to get more from your current sex toy collection. These devices allow you to go hands-free with your toys so you can focus on each other. Fantasize about a threesome by mounting your favorite dildo in the Liberator BonBon and fuck your invisible friend while your partner joins in or watches from across the room. Check out our full review on Liberator BonBon and check out the BonBon and the full line of toy mounts from Liberator.
#7 Cum Together with We-Vibe Chorus Couple's Vibrator
Connect with hands-free simultaneous stimulation for her and him, all while making her feel a bit of extra fullness and him a bit of extra tightness.
With the We-Vibe Chorus, you and your partner can experience simultaneous vibrations during penetration. It may sound a bit intimidating for some but the toy slides inside the vagina and wraps around to lay on the clitoris. Both the inside and outside have vibrating motors to stimulate her. Then the real fun begins as he slides himself inside of her along with the toy. She gets to feel that feeling of fullness while becoming extra tight for him, all while the vibrations continue for both. PS… the vibrations have tons of settings and are all controlled remotely. Shop for We-Vibe Chorus at Lovehoney or Liberator.
#8 Stay Harder Longer with Oxballs Tri-Sport Cock Ring and Ball Sling
Put a shiny black bow-tie of sorts on the base of your cock and stay harder longer with a touch of class. She will feel the difference in size and he will love the extra tug on his balls and the increased intensity of his orgasm.
The Oxballs Tri-Sport Cock Ring and Ball Sling is a low-cost toy that can add a little spice to any night. Designed to provide a pleasurable tightness around the balls while squeezing your cock to increase and prolong your erection, the Tri-Sport Cock Ring also has a nice 3-ring connected design aesthetic. The rings are stretchy enough for use by pretty much any sized cock and balls and definitely keep your cock harder (larger) while many users also report the ability to last longer. Available in black at Lovehoney and available in Clear at Liberator
Or check out the full line of Oxball rings, slings, and sleeves, all good for couples play.
#9 Explore New Positions with the Liberator Black Label Esse Chaise Sex Lounger
Bring the sexy hotel vibe back home with furniture designed specifically for sex. Easily hold unique positions longer and find new positions you hadn't even imagined possible.
When it comes to sex furniture, Liberator is the company with the widest selection of quality options. Some options like the Esse Chaise are pretty obviously made for sex, while others have a better chance of blending in as a bench or lounger at the base of your bed. If you're not too concerned about people seeing your sex furniture then I recommend going with the Black Label line with its sexy easy to clean faux leather fabric and 12 D-Rings along the base for bondage play.
#10 Give What You Get with Spareparts Tomboi Harness
Female couples have long known the thrills of ‘strap-on' fun and now heterosexual couples are getting in on the action (pegging). Whether it's her on her or her on him, these briefs comfortably keep your toy/dildo in place and let's the wearer focus on the fantasy.
This comfortable underwear comes in four sizes (S, M, L, XL) and solves all of the uncomfortable issues with harnesses play. Perfect for lesbian and heterosexual couples play, these comfortable briefs accommodate just about any sized dildo or toy with a flared base. Pegging, the term used when a woman wears the harness and fucks her man in the backside, isn't talked about too much but it is surprisingly common experimentation among longterm couples. He likes to fuck you in the ass, now switch roles, and give him a piece of his own medicine. Available for purchase here. or Check-out the full line at Spare Parts Hardware.
#11 Add Another Cock to the Mix with a Vixen Maverick Realistic Dildo
Let him watch you masturbate with a realistic dildo, let him control the penetration while he goes down on you, add it to a sex toy mount for hands-free fun, or give it to him while you take him in your mouth.
A high-quality dual-density dildo like the Vixen Maverick is one item that everyone should have in their sex chest. The Maverick is above average in size but not an oversized pornstar replica. The flared base means it could be used as a strap on (see harness above), used in one of the Liberator sex toy mounts, or used by hand on her or him.
#12 Take Control with Bondage Boutique Under Mattress Restraints
Take turns as a submissive or a dominatrix with four simple cuffs and easily hideable under-mattress restraints. Let go of control. Connect through trust. Give in to each other.
There are lots of options when it comes to bondage so it can be a little difficult to decide where to start. What I like about this Bondage Boutique option is that it fits around any bed and can easily be tucked away or pulled out when desired. I also like the fact that these come in white which makes them feel more ‘dreamy' and less intimidating for first-timers. Down the road, if you've dipped your toes into bondage play, you might want to go with something more sinister but this is definitely a great place to start.
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